For my Big Bro

Last year I dedicated a post to my little brother on his birthday. I figured it was appropriate to do the same for my big brother, John, on his birthday. So, here it is.

My big brother and I have a special connection that I can never have with my other siblings. You see, we were the only 2 of our family born in the great state of Texas. I don't remember everything first hand about the things we did together growing up. I'm sure he remembers more than I do - he is 2 years older than me after all. I have however heard all the stories over the years of sitting around the dinner table as a family.

There's the story of how I didn't speak as early as Katie and John. John helped me out at that time by being my translator. Anytime I needed something he would let everyone know what it was.

There's the story of how I beat him up side the head with the cast on my finger after I tried to cut the tip of it off with a door. I guess I was rather abusive to him growing up. He should know that I do love him. I've been trying to be nicer in more recent years.

There's the story of how I "borrowed" his school papers to teach myself how to write. I like how he helped me out even when he wasn't trying to.

There are some things that I do remember about growing up with John. He was always there, right ahead of me in school paving the way for me. We were in band together. We showed cows in 4-H together. We went on trips together. We've experienced many of the same difficulties in life often at the same time.

Though we've fought and gotten on each others' nerves we still love each other. I'm glad that I can say he is my brother and that we are able to get along as adults. He is getting ready to move on to a new part of life. I am excited for him and the opportunities that will open to him as he moves back to the state where we were born.

I love the support he has given me throughout my life. I love his crazy side that comes out every now and then. I really want the best for him in life. So, on this day of celebration I want to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my one and only big brother! :-)